"जो होता है अच्छे के लिए होता है"
ppl say whatever happens... happens for a reason
(usually indicating a good reason)...
it doesnt actually happen for any good that was pre-planned in our life... things/situations just happen n we try n make the best of them... when they work out (usually they shud if we're giving our best) we say it happened for a reason... if it doesn't, just say 'crap, maybe next time' n move on n wait for the next situation to come up that has to be tackled...the important thing is to remain positive that another shot will come that we will utilise...
my friend shyamalee, co-incidentally, wrote a good line similar to what i've been following in life:
"a future that i had IMAGINED, lets say instead of PLANNED"
we have a certain goal in life... a rough sketch of what we want... where we wanna be...
the mistake we do is when we think that the road we have planned is the only way to get there... what we plan never happens or if it does, it very easily gets foiled... now this doesn't mean we stop planning all-together just that we shud work on whatever situation we get to reach the aim, the sketch, the whatever it is... we get many chances, we need to keep our eyes n ears open... and be positive (sounds old but the only other option is being in the same situation, only as a negative, more unhappy person)...
so the road eventually is not straight and sometimes might go a bit off direction but the point is not to steer too hard but instead keep steering gentely in the direction of the goal... never forget the goal... forget the road... the road might be longer for some... my suggestion- let the windows down n enjoy th wind on ur face...
ppl say whatever happens... happens for a reason
(usually indicating a good reason)...
it doesnt actually happen for any good that was pre-planned in our life... things/situations just happen n we try n make the best of them... when they work out (usually they shud if we're giving our best) we say it happened for a reason... if it doesn't, just say 'crap, maybe next time' n move on n wait for the next situation to come up that has to be tackled...the important thing is to remain positive that another shot will come that we will utilise...
my friend shyamalee, co-incidentally, wrote a good line similar to what i've been following in life:
"a future that i had IMAGINED, lets say instead of PLANNED"
we have a certain goal in life... a rough sketch of what we want... where we wanna be...
the mistake we do is when we think that the road we have planned is the only way to get there... what we plan never happens or if it does, it very easily gets foiled... now this doesn't mean we stop planning all-together just that we shud work on whatever situation we get to reach the aim, the sketch, the whatever it is... we get many chances, we need to keep our eyes n ears open... and be positive (sounds old but the only other option is being in the same situation, only as a negative, more unhappy person)...
so the road eventually is not straight and sometimes might go a bit off direction but the point is not to steer too hard but instead keep steering gentely in the direction of the goal... never forget the goal... forget the road... the road might be longer for some... my suggestion- let the windows down n enjoy th wind on ur face...
